South Roanoke United Methodist Church

South Roanoke United Methodist Church

2330 South Jefferson Street
Roanoke, Virginia 24014

Phone: (540) 344-4437
Fax: (540) 345-8041

FOURTH SUNDAY IN ADVENT                                         DECEMBER 18, 2005 

As Christ cares, we care… we care about all people.
We care about worship… We care about learning.
We care about service… We care about You.

We are a community of Faith growing in God’s Grace.
 

ORDER OF SERVICE 9:00 AND 11:00 A.M. 

 
                                          9:00 A.M. PRAISE SERVICE
                                                 Led By Graceful Praise
 

8:50 a.m.-Gathering Songs
9:00 a.m.-Greeting and Singing
Lighting the Third Advent Candle
Sharing of Joys and Concerns
Children’s Time
Scripture
Sermon
Prayer and Lord’s Prayer
Offering and Special Music
Singing
Benediction
 

ORDER OF SERVICE-11:00 A.M. 

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ENTRANCE

Words of Welcome, Registration of Attendance and Announcements            Bill Davidson
    
(We encourage all of our worshipers to sign the registration pad as it is passed along the
       pew. Visitors are also requested to list their addresses. After it has been passed,
       please return it to the center aisle. If you wish to join this church by letter of transfer or
       profession of faith, please check “wish to join” on the registration pad.)

Gathering Music                               
Carol Medley by Brass 5
Call to Worship                        
Come, Good Christians All                        French Carol
+Opening Prayer  201                                   
Advent
+Processional Hymn  238                
Angels We Have Heard on High                  Gloria
Lighting of the Fourth Advent Candle                                     Cherub and Hosanna Choirs;
                                                                                                     
Eliza Gaylord, Reader
 

 PROCLAMATION AND RESPONSE

Sharing of Joys and Concerns                                                                        Bill Davidson
    
-Phil Leslie     -Bob Garner     -bonnie dayton and family    
Children’s Time

                           (Children leave for Children’s Church. See * Below)

+Hymn 250                                
Once in Royal David’s City                                    Irby
The Gospel Lesson

    
(N.T. pg. 56)                                                                                          Luke 1:26-38
    
Pastor:   This is the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.

    
People: Thanks be to God.
Anthem                                     
Shout the Glad Tidings                                      Stanton
    
Shout the glad tidings and joyfully sing, proclaim to the nations: Messiah is King!
        
Zion the marvelous story is telling: The Son of the Highest, how lowly His birth! The
      brightest archangel in heaven excelling: All joy in proclaiming He now reigns on earth!
      Mortals, your homage be gratefully bringing, and loud let your gladsome hosannas
           arise; ye angels, your  full hallelujah be singing. One chorus resound in the earth and
           the skies!
    
Tell of His coming from nation to nation, the heartcheering news let the earth echo
             round! Tell how to the faithful He brings full salvation; His people with joy ever
             lasting are crowned!

Sermon                            
Your Gift That’s Given Away                            Bill Davidson
[Sermon manuscripts are posted on the church website the Monday following the service each week, www.srumc.com]

Pastoral Prayer
The Lord's Prayer                                                                                  Hymnal, No. 895

    
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy
      will
be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And
      forgive us
our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And
      lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the Kingdom,
      and the power, and  the glory, forever. Amen.

Offering of Tithes and Gifts to God’s Work
    
Offertory Prayer
    
Offertory                              

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Doxology                                                                                               Hymnal, No. 94
    
Praise God, from whom all blessings flow; praise God, all creatures here below:
     Alleluia! Alleluia! Praise God, the source of all our gifts! Praise Jesus Christ,
    
whose power uplifts! Praise the Spirit, Holy Spirit! Alleluia! Alleluia!
      Alleluia
        
                                                     
SENDING FORTH
+Hymn 245                                        
The First Noel                                The First Noel
+Benediction              
+Postlude                                            

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THOSE SERVING TODAY:
 
December Altar Guild Chairs: Caty Joppich and Vickie Sherertz
 
Cross Bearer: Rachel Wilkinson
 
Acolytes: Robert Bear and Kyle Glover
 
Ushers:   Captain-William P. Wallace, Jr., William Brenton, Jr., Prentice E. Moran,
               William Richardson, Joseph L. Austin, Ross Jeffries 

The Special Music this Morning is Presented
TO THE GLORY OF GOD
 
In Loving Memory of David H. Burrows, Jr.
By the Robert G. Burleson Family
 

*CHILDREN (ages 3 through 1st grade), may meet the acolyte to recess to Children’s Church. Please ask your child to line up behind the acolyte who will lead all children out together. After the worship service,
parents must pick up their child in the Children’s Department; children will not be allowed to leave the room until their parents arrive.
 

WELCOME! We're glad to have all who have joined us for this time of worship. Especially to our guests and visitors, we welcome you to South Roanoke and to our fellowship. We invite those who have no church home to make South Roanoke your church and add your witness to ours. 

NEXT WEEK’S SERVICE (one only at 10:00 a.m.) will be A Service of Christmas Carols with selected scripture readings. 

TO DATE WE HAVE RECEIVED $479,223.00 IN PLEDGES toward our 2006 budget. The proposed budget for 2006 is $543,032.00. If you have not yet had the opportunity to make your pledge you may do so this morning. You will find pledge cards in the pew racks, and you may place them in the offering plate as it is passed. 

THE PASTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND is used for special needs that are called to the attention of the pastor. This fund has been depleted over the past several years and needs some additional funding. If you would like to contribute please make your check payable to SRUMC and earmark it “pastor’s discretionary fund”. 

WE WELCOME THE BRASS 5 today who bring us special  music to celebrate this Christmas Season. 

THE CHURCH OFFICE WILL BE LOCKED on Sunday mornings! This change has been necessitated by various problems incurred recently. If you need to use the copy machine, please come by the church during the week. Also, you may find the outside doors locked when Penny is alone in the church. There is a buzzer by the 24th street door. Please ring the buzzer and Penny will unlock the door. We are in the process of looking into a security system for the church. We’ll keep you informed of changes as they occur. 

ADVENT ANGEL REPORT—In the true spirit of the season our congregation is sharing gifts for the children of the Henry Fork Service Center in Franklin County with estimated value as follows:
 
40 “angels” with special needs  -  $8,000.00
 
81 “angels” for single gifts  -  $2,835.00
 
Kroger gift cards for families  $1,000.00

 
TOTAL 121 “angels”  -           $11,835.00
We are grateful to Family Ministries Coordinators, Tallulah Gregory and Janie Wallace, for our wonderful meal, our Junior High Choir, directed by Joe Kennedy, and all of our youth for the great program directed by Paula Coker-Jones, and Dawn Long and Terry Wilkinson for their leadership in the Advent Angel program.
 

THE NEW FLOWER CALENDAR FOR 2006 is on the bulletin board by the church parlor. If you would like to remember or honor a loved one by placing flowers on the altar, please sign up on the calendar as soon as possible to reserve your special date. 

THE YOUTH WILL OFFER A BABYSITTING NIGHT on December 20 from 6:00-10:00. Cost is $5.00 per child and dinner will be provided. Activities will include crafts, games and Christmas music. Please sign up by December 18 to register your child. 

“BUILDING A STRONGER FAITH” will be the theme for study in the Wimmer Class during January. Based on “The Great House of God” by Max Lucado, it will be led by Doug Newman as follows: Jan. 8, “Where Trust Begins,” Jan. 15, “Discovering God’s Will for My Life,” Jan 22, “Grace: Learning to Live Together,” Jan. 29, (announced later). All are invited. 

THE CONGREGATION EXPRESSES SYMPATHY AND CONCERN to bonnie dayton and family in the recent death of bonnie’s brother-in-law. 

REMEMBER OUR SOLDIERS AT CHRISTMAS TIME!
    
SFC Mark L. Williams                    PVT Christopher Davidson
    
CMATT (MP School)                    1 Lake Phillips Drive
    
AnNumaniyah/Scania                      Hampton, VA 23669
    
APO AE 09331
 

C.R.e.W. “Children Ready for Worship:
Grades 2-5 What we’re doing this week

God’s People Respond
 

All God’s Children
    
Today as you sit in worship, look around you. What are the ages of those gathered together today to worship God? Do you see people across the life span? Young and old, we are called by God to be children of God. Young and old, we are called to gather with the community of believers in Jesus Christ, to listen to God, and to seek to serve God. Young and old, we offer our gifts to God and seek to leave our places of worship renewed in our faith and strengthened to serve the world.
    
Look at the young around you. Jesus gave us two portraits of children among his followers in the New Testament. Do you remember the story of Jesus and the children? You may want to read this story, which is found in Luke 18:15-17, again. When the disciples scolded peopled for bringing their children to Jesus, Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs.” Children belong in the community of faith.
    
Remember, too, the boy who shared his food. Turn to John 6:1-13, and read again what happened when those gathered to hear Jesus were hungry. When the crowd grew hungry and the disciples wondered what to do, Andrew said, “There is a boy here who has five barley loaves and two fish.” The boy served the community of faith by sharing his food. And through the power of Jesus, all were fed. Children can play a responsible part in the life of the community of faith.
    
How is it in your congregation today? How are the children included? How do children lead and lay responsible roles when the people gather to worship God?
    
As you worship, and after the service, you can help children feel that they truly belong and truly serve by:

·
          Speaking to children, calling them by name.
·
          Asking a children to pray with you about a concern you share as Christians in the same
       faith community.

·
          Pointing out the things in your sanctuary that help you focus on God and asking a child
       to show you the things that help him or her focus on God.

·
          Sharing a hymnal or a Bible and helping each other read or sing the words.
·
          Thanking children for the contributions they have made in today’s worship-as Bible
       readers, as acolytes, as greeters, as choir members, or in any other way in which they
       provide leadership.
 

There will be NO nursery on Christmas Day

YOUTH CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION for all 6th-12th graders: Thursday, December 22, 7:30-11:30 p.m. in the gym with music provided by Wiz Enterprises and Dave’s Moonwalk games! (This is a snow date from December 16 postponement.)

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December 18, 2005         4th Sunday in Advent       Your Gift that’s Given Luke 1:26-38                                                             Away

The best gifts you get are the ones that are given away.  It’s a bit unusual to say this in this season when we are all anticipating what awaits us next Sunday all wrapped up with love and surprise intended just for us, but it’s speaks to the very central truth of the Gospel:  the best gifts you get are the ones that are given away.

 

Now I’m not talking about the obvious this morning—gifts that you receive that you just can’t quite figure out, gifts given to you that you don’t know quite what to do with, gifts that you may even eventually re-wrap and give to somebody else at the last minute whom you may have forgotten about if not this Christmas then next Christmas!  As a matter of fact, the Roanoke Area Clergy Association has an annual celebration at this time of year where just such gifts received by the ministers and rabbis in the group are wrapped up and exchanged at the annual holiday party!  I’m not talking about that kind of gift.  

No, the gift promised to Mary by the angel in the Gospel lesson today is not that kind of gift.  When the angel declares to Mary:
         
you will conceive in your womb and bear a son
it was a shocking announcement, to be sure, to be made to an unmarried woman, but make no mistake about it, a child is a great gift.  The real blessing of the gift of this child is his intended purpose:

       
you will name him Jesus.  He will be great, and will be called
        the Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give to him the
       throne of his ancestor David.  He will reign over the house of
      Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.
The real blessing of this gift to Mary is the blessing he will be to others.  For him to be a blessing to others Mary must first give him up.  

The announcement made to Mary is soon shared with the whole world when the angels declare
         
Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will to all.
We hear that announcement and we receive that gift.  We proclaim it with joy this season of the year.  In honor of that great gift to the world we exchange gifts, giving and receiving in the spirit of the celebration of the gift of the Christ Child.

But the best gifts you get are the ones that are given away.  That’s the truth of the Gospel.  That’s the true message of this season.  That is what this great gift of God to the world is all about.

A minister of the church who lived in Myra long ago, which is now the country of Turkey , knew this truth.  He not only knew it, he lived it.  He loved children, especially those in need.  Around Christmastime he would secretly leave gifts at the doorsteps of the homes of those children who needed the most.  He later became a Bishop of the church and continued his ministry of concern for the poor and needy and urged the church to always care for them.  In later years Bishop Nicholas became known as a saint, one whom we now know as St. Nicholas.  You see, Santa Claus has always been a giver.  He has always loved children and has always been especially concerned for those who don’t have enough, who are poor, needy, lonely, and hurting.  Understand me when I say to you that Santa Claus, Saint Nicholas, is a retired bishop of the church and once a year he continues his special ministry to children, taking special care of those who need the most.  He heard the message, he understood the announcement, and he proclaims it with his life.  Having already received such a great gift in Jesus, God’s Son, he knows the best gifts you get are the ones that are given away.  

A number of years ago I came across the story by Nancy Gavin of Baltimore that expresses for me the truth of this message.  It is entitled “For the Man Who Hated Christmas.”  

It's just a small, white envelope stuck among the branches of our Christmas tree. No name, no identification, no inscription. It has peeked through the branches of our tree for the past 10 years or so. It all began because my husband Mike hated Christmas--oh, not the true meaning of Christmas, but the commercial aspects of it--overspending, the frantic running around at the last minute to get a tie for Uncle Harry and the dusting powder for Grandma--the gifts given in desperation because you couldn't think of anything else. Knowing he felt this way, I decided one year to bypass the usual shirts, sweaters, ties and so forth. I reached for something special just for Mike. The inspiration came in an unusual way.

Our son Kevin, who was 12 that year, was wrestling at the junior level at the school he attended; and shortly before Christmas, there was a non-league match against a team sponsored by an inner-city church, mostly black. These youngsters, dressed in sneakers so ragged that shoestrings seemed to be the only thing holding them together, presented a sharp contrast to our boys in their spiffy blue and gold uniforms and sparkling new wrestling shoes. As the match began, I was alarmed to see that the other team was wrestling without headgear, a kind of light helmet designed to protect a wrestler's ears. It was a luxury the ragtag team obviously could not afford.

Well, we ended up walloping them. We took every weight class. And as each of their boys got up from the mat, he swaggered around in his tatters with false bravado, a kind of street pride that couldn't acknowledge defeat. Mike, seated beside me, shook his head sadly, "I wish just one of them could have won," he said. "They have a lot of potential, but losing like this could take the heart right out of them." Mike loved kids--all kids--and he knew them, having coached little league football, baseball and lacrosse.

That's when the idea for his present came. That afternoon, I went to a local sporting goods store and bought an assortment of wrestling headgear and shoes and sent them anonymously to the inner-city church. On Christmas Eve, I placed the envelope on the tree, the note inside telling Mike what I had done and that this was his gift from me. His smile was the brightest thing about Christmas that year and in succeeding years, for each Christmas, I followed the tradition--one year sending a group of retarded youngsters to a hockey game, another year a check to a pair of elderly brothers whose home had burned to the ground a week before Christmas, and on and on.

The envelope became the highlight of our Christmas. It was always the last thing opened on Christmas morning and our children, ignoring their new toys, would stand with wide-eyed anticipation as their dad lifted the envelope from the tree to reveal its contents. As the children grew, the toys gave way to more practical presents, but the envelope never lost its allure.

The story doesn't end there. You see, we lost Mike last year due to dreaded cancer. But when Christmas rolled around, I was still so wrapped in grief that I barely got the tree up. But Christmas Eve found me placing an envelope on the tree, and in the morning, it was joined by three more. Each of our children, unbeknownst to the others, had placed an envelope on the tree for their dad. The tradition had grown and someday will expand even further with our grandchildren standing around the tree with wide-eyed anticipation watching as their fathers take down the envelope . . . .Mike's spirit, like the Christmas Spirit, will always be with us....
 
Nancy Gavin, “For the Man Who Hated Christmas,” quoted by Homiletics Online, December 22, 1996
The best gifts you get are the ones that are given away.

Just last Wednesday our son Chris returned to his home in Hampton with his wife, Jessica, and child, Gabriel after a short visit with us.  We shared their Christmas together last Tuesday night because he flies off to Camp Casey , South Korea , on December 22 for his first one-year unaccompanied tour of duty with the United States Army.  After they left, as Cheryl and I began to prepare ourselves for his absence and send him off in the service of his country the truth came back to us in a most personal way:  the best gifts you receive are the ones you give away.

In your bulletin today you will find a small, white envelope.  In the spirit of the announcement of angels, in the spirit of St. Nicholas, in the true spirit of this season, use this envelope, and give a gift that’s given away.
                                                                                                       William G. Davidson