South Roanoke United Methodist Church

South Roanoke United Methodist Church

2330 South Jefferson Street
Roanoke, Virginia 24014

Phone: (540) 344-4437
Fax: (540) 345-8041

THE FOURTH SUNDAY AFTER THE EPIPHANY                         FEBRUARY 1, 2004 

As Christ cares, we care… we care about all people.
We care about worship… We care about learning.
We care about service… We care about You.
We are a community of Faith growing in God’s Grace.
 

ORDER OF SERVICE-11:00 A.M.
Holy Communion

+ Indicates the people standing

ENTRANCE

Gathering Music 
       
As the prelude plays, please use this time for quiet reflection in preparation for worship.      
Chiming of the Hour
Words of Welcome, Registration of Attendance and Announcements                        Bill Davidson
     (We encourage all of our worshipers to please sign the registration pad as it is passed along the
      pew; visitors are requested to also list their address. After it has been passed, please return it
      to the center aisle. If you wish to join this church by letter of transfer or profession of faith,
      please check “wish to join” on the Registration pad.)
Call to Worship
     Minister:  The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you.
    
People:    And also with you.
    
Minister:  The risen Christ is with us.
    
People:    Praise the Lord!
+Invocation  (Unison)
    
Almighty God, to you all hearts are open, all desires known, and from you no secrets
     are hidden. Cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of your Holy
     Spirit, that we may perfectly love you, and worthily magnify your holy name,
     through Christ our Lord. Amen.

+Hymn 194                                  
Morning Glory, Starlit Sky                                    Monkland
Children’s Time 
                               (Children leave for Children’s Church. See * below)

Sharing of Joys and Concerns                                                                               Doug Newman
     -Loretta Hodges  -Cheryl Harrison-Davidson  -Elizabeth Kicklighter
     -Randi Dayton (leaves for Africa mission trip today)
     -Deal Tompkins (moving to Maryland) 
Pastoral Prayer
Offering of Tithes and Gifts to God's Work
    Offertory Prayer 
    Offertory
+Doxology                                                                                                          Hymnal, No. 95

     Praise God, from whom all blessings flow; praise him, all creatures here below;
     praise him above, ye heavenly host; praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost. Amen.
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Invitation to Communion   12                                                                          
Prayer of Confession (Unison)                                                                                  Don Roberts

     Merciful God, we confess that we have not loved you with our whole heart. We have
     failed to be an obedient church. We have not done your will, we have broken your
     law, we have rebelled against your love, we have not loved our neighbors, and we
     have not heard the cry of the needy. Forgive us, we pray. Free us for joyful obedi-
     ence, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Old Testament Lesson  (O.T. pg.698)                                                           Jeremiah 1:4-10
     Pastor:  This is the Word of the Lord.
    
People:  Thanks be to God.
The Epistle Lesson  (N.T. pg. 175)                                                              I Corinthians 13:1-13
     Pastor:  This is the Word of the Lord.
    
People: Thanks be to God.
Sermon                      
“It’s Not What You Do But Who You Are”                         Bill Davidson
    [Sermon manuscripts are posted on the church website the Monday following the service each week. www.srumc.com]

Anthem                                              
Unto Thee O Lord                                               Aulbach
    
Unto Thee, O Lord, I lift up my soul, O Lord, unto Thee. O my God, in thee have I
           trusted, let not thine enemies triumph over me.
      Show me thy ways. Teach me thy paths. Thou art the God of my salvation.
Service of Holy Communion                                                                               Hymnal, page 15

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Hymn 408                                         The Gift of Love                                           Gift of Love
+Benediction
+Postlude
                          

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THOSE SERVING TODAY:
 
Communion Steward:  Mark Hall
  Communion Servers:  Bill Davidson, Doug Newman, Don Roberts, John DeVerter
  Greeters:  Mark and Margaret Knopf
  Acolytes:  Zack Culbreth and Emily Wallace
  February Altar Guild Chair: Bittsy Hall
  Ushers:   Captain-Thomas W. Ruble, Mark M. Hall, Joseph J. Masters, William G. Sandy,
     David E. Nedrow, Jack Gregory 

The Altar Flowers are Given
TO THE GLORY OF GOD
In Loving Memory of Our Parents
By Bill and Ellie Clark 

*CHILDREN (AGES 3 through 1st GRADE), may meet the acolyte to recess to Children’s Church. Please ask your child to line up behind the acolyte who will lead all children out together. After the worship service, parents must pick up their child in the Children’s Department; children will not be allowed to leave the room until their parents arrive. 

WELCOME! We're glad to have all who have joined us for this time of worship. Especially to our guests and visitors, we welcome you to South Roanoke and to our fellowship. We invite those who have no church home to make South Roanoke your church and add your witness to ours. 

NEXT WEEK’S SERMON, Have You Seen God?, will be based on Isaiah 6:1-8. Please read and study the text this week. 

YOUR NEXT OPPORTUNITY FOR WORSHIP will be Wednesday, February 4 at 7:00 p.m. for the Contemporary Worship Service. The speaker will be Austin Mundy.

PLEASE SEND ARTICLES for the March issue of the Tower Times by February 15 to Joe Kennedy, or email to joesrumc@aol.com. 

THE ADULT FELLOWSHIP GROUP will meet for a catered lunch in the Fellowship Hall on Thursday, February 19 at 12:00 p.m. All adults of the church (of every age) are welcomed. Sign up on the list on the board by the church office if you would like to attend. 

DINNER GROUPS: New dinner groups will be forming by February 15. If you would like to join a dinner group or need to change your dinner group status, please call Colleen Marston, 989-0623 or Terry Wilkinson, 772-0490 by February 10. 

YOUTH NEWS:
    
Our 8th and 9th graders will be at Massanutten next weekend (Feb. 7 & 8) for a retreat on
           World Religions (and skiing.)
     The Youth Service will be Sunday, February 22 at 11:00 a.m.
     Our Senior High Youth will be speaking at the CWS on February 4, 11 and 18.    

2004-05 PRESCHOOL/MOTHERS’ DAY OUT REGISTRATION began January 26th for all currently enrolled students and SRUMC members. Registration for the public opens February 9th. Call the preschool office at 982-3707 for more information. 

THE ROANOKE DISTRICT VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL WORKSHOP will be held Sunday, February 8, at 2:00 p.m. at First UMC, Salem. All VBS teachers and leaders are encouraged to attend. 

THE DISCIPLE BIBLE STUDY CLASS began meeting on January 20th. This study will continue every Tuesday evening at 7:15 p.m. in the Wesley Class. Three spots are still available. To date there are eleven participants. If you are interested please call Patty Oshida, 989-4880. 

A NURSERY WORKER IS NEEDED for Sunday evenings from 4:45-7:45 p.m. and Wednesday evenings from 6:45-8:00 p.m. Pay is $10.00 per hour. If you are interested, or know someone who might be interested please call Colleen Marston, 989-0623. 

THERE IS A new greeter sign-up calendar on the bulletin board by the church parlor. Please check your schedules and sign up to serve as a greeter one or more Sundays during the year. 

THE ROSE ON THE ALTAR is in honor of the birth of Charles Nolan Clifton who was born on January 26, 2004 to Curt and Laura Clifton of Annapolis, MD. The proud grandparents are Don and Carolyn Nolan. 

THE VIRGINIA ANNUAL CONFERENCE will sponsor a Spring Laity Spiritual Growth Retreat at the Assembly Center in Blackstone April 17-18. The theme will be Come Unto Me and Take My Yoke. If you would like more information please call the church office, 344-4437. 

YOU ARE INVITED TO JOIN the Aldersgate Sunday School class as we begin a new study of the book, Forty-Sixty: A Study for Midlife Adults Who Want to Make a Difference. The book combines information about aging (Yes, we admit that we’re getting there!) with biblical and personal reflection. Issues addressed in the study include children and grandparents, spirituality, aging parents, losses, and giving back. You will find us in the room above the kitchen each Sunday morning.

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SERMON

February 1, 2004       4th Sunday after the Epiphany
         Jer. 1:4-10; 1 Cor. 13:1-13          It’s Not What You Do but Who You Are
 

There is a prayer, perhaps you have heard it, perhaps you have prayed it yourself:
     Dear Lord, so far today I’ve done all right.  I haven’t gossiped, haven’t lost
     my temper, haven’t been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish, or over-indulgent,
     and I’m very thankful for that.  But in a few minutes, God, I’m going to get
     out of bed.  And from then on, I’m probably going to need a lot of help. 
     Amen.
               
(Anonymous from the Internet)
That’s an honest prayer!  You do feel good when you have any span of time in your life like that when you’re asleep!  But what do you do when you’re awake and actually relating to people and making decisions right in the middle of life? 

Well, for most of us, when we are awake, relating to people and making decisions right in the middle of life we still pray but we offer different prayers; prayers like this:
    
God, help me to consider other people’s feelings, even if most of them ARE
     hypersensitive;
     God, help me take responsibility for my own actions, even though it’s
     usually not my fault;
    God, help me be open to others’ ideas, WRONG though they may be;
    God, give me patience, and I mean right NOW! (Anonymous from the
    Internet)

Those are honest prayers, too, and accurate, don’t you think?  Now it’s not that we don’t do good things in life, admirable things; but Paul counsels the Christians of Corinth and says, “Now I can do all kinds of very good things but if I don’t have love, it makes no difference at all.  Strange tongues, prophetic power, understanding all mystery and all knowledge, faith to move mountains, generosity that gives away all I have, even martyrdom are but noisy gongs, clanging bells, nothing, nothing at all if I don’t have love.”  These honest and accurate prayers are important because they reveal to us how we are doing on that very important thing—love, which is patient, kind, not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude, doesn’t insist on its own way, not irritable or resentful, and does not rejoice in wrongdoing.  Paul says its not enough to do good things, even very good things.  You must have love; all these good things must spring from the purest of motives and integrity of heart.  They must be based in patience and kindness deep inside where envy, arrogance, and resentment have no place at all. 

No wonder this prayer of the waking Christian resonates so much with us.  Can you do this?  Can you do good things with only the purest of motives?  Can you really live this love? 

The Scripture says, no, you can’t.  You are not capable in and of yourself to love like this. 

Paul uses one of three Greek words for “love” here.  Of the three Greek words for love, two humans can do, one humans cannot do.  Of the three words in the Greek language that translate into English by the word “love” only two of them are within the human capacity.  Those two are “eros” (romantic love) and “philia” (friendship).  When it comes to “eros” and “philia” (romantic love and friendship), those are well within the human capacity to love; we can handle those.  But there is another Greek word which is translated into English as “love,” and that is the Greek word that Paul uses here.  Every time the English word “love” appears in the text, it is not “eros,” nor is it “philia.”  It is that third Greek word which is translated as “love;” it is “agape.”  “Agape”—love that asked nothing in return.  Only God can love like that.  Only God is capable of still loving when humanity continually rejects God throughout the generations.  God is the only one who never gives up but loves again and again.  Only God is capable of giving up an only Son in love.  God is love.  Love is the very essence of God.  Only god can love and ask for nothing in return.  Agape. 

You can’t love like that—not in and of yourself.  No matter how many behaviors your seek to emulate; no matter how hard you try to
     be patient or kind;
     never be envious or boastful or arrogant or rude;
     never insist on your own way;
     not be irritable or resentful or rejoice in wrongdoing;
it is simply beyond your human capacity.  You cannot learn, you cannot practice, you cannot try hard enough to attain it.  No, this is not love that you know how to do in and of yourself.  This love, you see, is a gift.  This love is a gift of God. 

How can you get this gift from God?  Listen to the Scripture as the prophet Jeremiah overhears God:
    
Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, and before you were born I
     consecrated you…         
Jeremiah 1:5a
It is a gift, this love.  It is a gift.  You have that gift already.  God loved you long before you were born.  God loves you now.  God will always love you.  And God never asked anything in return.  You didn’t have to do a thing.  You have this gift from God; you’ve always had it—and it can grow in you.  This love grows in you when you realize just how much you are loved by God.  You see, you were created in God’s image.  That image of God is still there in you.  It is “off-center;” it is pushed aside; but it is still there.  The more you draw closer to God the more is restored in you that image of God in which you were created.  The more you draw closer to the essence of God the more you reflect the image of God in you. 

You can only love like this to the extent that the image of God in which you were created is held, cherished, and nurtured at the very center of your life.  That’s what Paul means when he says, “…it is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me”  (Galatians 2:20). That’s the point of coming to church;                  serving Christ in the world;
                             spending a little bit of time each day quietly with God.
That is exactly what we receive at the Lord’s table—that gift. 

You see, this love is not so much something you do as it is who you are.  This is not a valiant attempt to change your behavior but a submission of your soul.  It’s not behavior modification, it’s spiritual formation.  It’s not simply a matter of behavior; it’s a matter of the heart.  It’s not what you do but who you are.  It is a gift of God that grows in you as you grow in your relationship to God. 

Paul calls this a more excellent way.  If you had a choice between working real hard just trying to behave yourself everyday or growing in loving relationship with god, which would you choose?  As he describes this more excellent way he shifts to lyric language--almost a poem.  That’s the only way you can adequately express heart language.  What Paul presents here is not a list of behaviors to be emulated but the flow of life in relationship to God—a life growing ever closer to the very essence of God, an essence that is restored more and more each day at the very center of your heart.  It’s not what you do but who you are.  This can only be accurately expressed in heart language.  Heart language can only appropriately be expressed lyrically, maybe only in a poem, or in a song.  The prayer of the waking Christian ought to be each and every morning of life more like the 25th Psalm:
          Unto thee, O LORD, I lift up my soul, O LORD unto thee.
                                                           
Adapted from Psalm 25 for Choral Anthem by Aulbach
                                                                                        William G. Davidson